to pass the time, some friends have all been passing around links for personality tests. i don't put stock in many of them, except perhaps the myers-briggs indicator. however, even that has been changed online somehow. the results of my online myers-briggs were somewhat different than i typically reflect in results i've taken the myers-briggs on paper.
one of the links provided a color test which was susprisingly accurate. don't laugh. i would typically make fun of people believing such an online test could give accurate readings of their so-called personality type from simply clicking on the pretty colors. but, i submit that you should take THE COLOR QUIZ & see what you think.
my results:
that desired lines comment hits home mostly because i am an admitted control freak. i fear losing control of things & of people. this has always been one of my biggest downfalls in romantic relationships - the fear of losing control of my individuality to another.
heh - that standards thing comes up often, sometimes unexpectedly. i subconsciously believe that others should maintain the same standards of beauty, loyalty & honesty to myself. i have high expectations & i can be belligerant about them.
there's that nasty word, "restrain" of demands & hopes. that internal battle of choosing how i surrender my full control over those things. taking offense is admittedly a downfall of mine & something that can contribute little a discussion or debate. strangely i can separate out my thoughts & be an excellent mediator for others but when it comes to the matters of my heart, i'm quick to raise my defenses.
who doesn't?
bada bing, bada bang, bada boom.
one of the links provided a color test which was susprisingly accurate. don't laugh. i would typically make fun of people believing such an online test could give accurate readings of their so-called personality type from simply clicking on the pretty colors. but, i submit that you should take THE COLOR QUIZ & see what you think.
my results:
Your Existing Situation
Volatile and outgoing. Needs to feel that events are developing along desired lines, otherwise irritation can lead to changeability or superficial activities.
that desired lines comment hits home mostly because i am an admitted control freak. i fear losing control of things & of people. this has always been one of my biggest downfalls in romantic relationships - the fear of losing control of my individuality to another.
Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. Her control of her sensual instincts restricts her ability to give herself, but the resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and allow herself to merge with another. This disturbs her. as such instincts are regarded as weaknesses to be overcome; she feels that only by continued self-restraint can she hope to maintain her attitude of individual superiority. Wants to be loved or admired for herself alone; needs attention, recognition, and the esteem of others.
heh - that standards thing comes up often, sometimes unexpectedly. i subconsciously believe that others should maintain the same standards of beauty, loyalty & honesty to myself. i have high expectations & i can be belligerant about them.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Circumstances are forcing her to compromise, to restrain her demands and hopes, and to forgo for the time being some of the things she wants. Insists that her hopes and ideas are realistic, but needs reassurance and encouragement. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.
there's that nasty word, "restrain" of demands & hopes. that internal battle of choosing how i surrender my full control over those things. taking offense is admittedly a downfall of mine & something that can contribute little a discussion or debate. strangely i can separate out my thoughts & be an excellent mediator for others but when it comes to the matters of my heart, i'm quick to raise my defenses.
Your Desired Objective
Seeks affectionate, satisfying and harmonious relationships. Desires an intimate union, in which there is a love, self-sacrifice and mutual trust.
who doesn't?
Your Actual Problem
Needs to achieve a stable and peaceful condition, enabling her to free herself of the worry that she may be prevented from achieving all the things she wants.
Your Actual Problem #2
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem.
bada bing, bada bang, bada boom.
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